Everything is all up in the air for all of us when we all try to make recovery somehow fit into and play a role in the life that we're all living when we all get here to being in recovery. Nothing will make any sense to all of us now those of us who are ready to be in recovery and this causes us to be confused which is actually good that this does because what has to be done by all of us in a lot of ways, and for the most part is the complete opposite to what all of us are use to doing, and it's out of this total state of confusion that we're all now in that we would all even consider ourselves doing the things that are suggested by recovery for us to do. For all of us to get the most out of being in recovery and for us to be able to go through with the process that's in recovery so we'll be able to stay here in recovery the less sense that any of this makes and the more confused we all are the better off it is going to be for all of our chances of being able to make it. By this way we all are able to make our way into recovery and then this way is the way that allows for all of us to be able to stay here.