Our bodies may be different from others but it's from our minds where the troubles come from and in that way we are no different than anyone else. Most of us are sure there's something different with our minds when we begin our recovery only to find out that we're pretty much the same as everyone else. We face the same problem that most people have and that's of having a closed mind. This happens after receiving enough information about something to make a decision and then stick to that decision no matter what. We'll have to have an open mind to recover. It's about listening to things that we've already made a decision about. When we do this it causes us to have to rethink our decision, which causes us to take action in one way or another. This is the process by which we can change, some of us will avoid doing this like the plague.