Resentments are our number one offender; they keep us from getting and staying in our recovery. Most of us are unaware we have them, some are very subtle, others the ones we know of are pretty obvious. We form them in a heartbeat and the program of recovery can help us to get rid of them. Having and harboring them only stymies the spiritual growth we all need so that we'll not return back to where it is we were trying to get away from. Don't worry about getting them. We all have resentments learning what to do about them is what's important to us all.